The First Habit (7 Habits of Highly effective people)

Most of the people may not know the fact that whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve.

You always reap what you sow; there is no shortcut. 

Things are as they are. The way we see things is the source of the way we think and the way we act. We see the World not as it is, but as we are or as we are conditioned to see it.


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Problems are not problems. The way we see the problem is the problem.

First Habit: Be Proactive

The first habit that everybody should have in order to be a highly effective people is Be Proactive. It means you should be active always and your activeness should not depend upon surroundings. The external sources should not affect your ability.

Don’t be reactive. Reactive people react upon conditions while proactive people whatever the situations may be, don’t react upon conditions. They are always active.

We are not our feelings. We are not our moods. We are not even our thoughts. Our behaviors is a function of our decisions, not our conditions.

Responsibility means the ability to choose a response. It’s not what happens to us but our response to what happens to us that hurt us. Anytime we think the problem is out there, that thought is the problem.

Be light, not a judge.

Be a model, not a critic.

Be the part of the solution, not the part of the problem.



Author: Niraj Thapa Magar

I believe not just in learning but actually sharing with others. I am NIRAJ............. an individual who love peace, talk less but listen more and a shy - little bit. Currently, I am studying Master of Management in CQUniversity, Sydney. I am exploring my life in order to make it better and to find the genuine purpose of life.

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